Family Mediation in Ireland

 (Separating & Divorcing Couples)

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Mediation is a constructive forum offering a calm, more practical way to sort things out together. ​ I help you work towards practical outcomes that you feel comfortable with. It is not about blame or taking sides — it is about moving forward in a healthy more sustainable and cost effective way.​

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FAQs​​

 

What is family mediation?

Family mediation is a voluntary, confidential process where an impartial mediator helps separating or divorcing couples work through practical and emotional issues. It focuses on reaching clear agreements on matters such as parenting, finances, and communication after separation.

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What issues can be resolved through mediation?

Mediation can help with a range of issues, including:

Parenting arrangements (custody, access, routines)

Co-parenting communication and decision-making

Child maintenance and financial responsibilities

Division of property, savings, and asset

Separation planning and next steps

 

Is mediation legally binding?

The outcome of mediation is not automatically legally binding. However, once an agreement is reached, it can be brought to a solicitor to be drafted into a legally binding agreement or incorporated into a court order, such as a Separation Agreement or Consent Order.

 

Do both parties have to attend mediation?

Yes. Mediation only works if both parties agree to participate. It is a joint process that requires mutual respect and willingness to engage in open discussion.

 

How long does the mediation process take?

Every situation is different. Some couples may only need one or two sessions, while others with more complex matters may need several. Sessions usually last between 60 to 90 minutes and are scheduled at a pace that suits both parties.

 

What are the benefits of family mediation?

Faster and more cost-effective than legal proceedings

Helps reduce conflict and stress

Focused on long-term co-parenting success

Gives both parties control over the outcome

Encourages respectful, constructive communication

 

What if we can't agree?

Even if full agreement isn’t reached, mediation can still help clarify the issues and reduce the number of matters to be resolved through solicitors or the courts. If mediation breaks down, each party remains free to pursue legal advice or court proceedings.

 

Is mediation confidential?

Yes. Mediation is private and confidential. Information discussed during sessions cannot be used in court, except in rare cases where there are concerns about child safety or serious criminal matters.

 

Is mediation suitable in high-conflict situations?

Mediation can still be effective even where conflict exists. Mediators are trained to manage difficult conversations and ensure both parties feel safe and heard. In cases involving abuse or coercion, the mediator will assess whether mediation is appropriate and safe for both parties.

 

Do we need solicitors if we use mediation?

While mediation can reduce the need for solicitors, it’s often recommended to seek independent legal advice before signing any legally binding agreement. Many clients use mediation to reach an agreement, then ask their solicitor to formalise it.

 

How can mediation support co-parenting after separation?

Mediation helps parents develop a clear, workable parenting plan that puts the child’s needs first. It encourages communication and cooperation, and helps avoid misunderstandings or repeated conflicts over parenting decisions.

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